Aquarius In Relationships

Charming, exciting and unpredictable, yet somehow strangely detached from the proceedings, you are one of the zodiac's most eccentric personalities. Your powerful intellect propels you into original thought and desire to take things to the limit in all manner of offbeat directions. You definitely look for the unusual and challenging, while at the same time seeking romance, tenderness and understanding in your relationships.

Aquarius, a masculine sign, is adventurous and not averse to the thrill of risk-taking. No timidity for you! Your optimism and positivity, combined with idealism and the need to break new ground can lead you into quite unfamiliar territory - not that this bothers you, for you are willing to follow any new lead to its conclusion. Your sex-drive is not unduly strong, but your need to explore and be stimulated sometimes gives others the impression that your desires are rampant!

Be that as it may, you are open to all forms of experimentation (in the search for new knowledge) and the field of sexuality and relationships is no exception. Even though deep down you seek security, your love of originality and exploring unusual new fields of endeavor gives you an attraction for partners with interesting, unconventional minds (and bodies). I might add that if their sexuality is unconventional too, you'll more than play along - at least until you've extracted a new chapter for your own personal x-files..

Your emblem is the Water Bearer, pouring the water of originality, idealism and consciousness onto the parched earth of materialism and dullness. You stand at the vanguard of original thinking and tolerance, so you are not averse to seeking partners from other cultures, or other races. Your freedom is extremely important and you hate to be tied down, although, because your mind may be absorbed in some challenging study, you may not notice infringements to this rule for some time. When you do notice, you may react explosively and head for the door.

Aquarius is a fixed sign, but you are not stuck in the mud. You can seem to be rather impersonal, but this is because you are immersed in painting the bigger picture. Your deepest needs are for a satisfying and complementary relationship, which gives you freedom and tolerance along with both mental and physical stimulation. With the right person you are a passionate, uninhibited and understanding lover and partner for life.


LIBRA A Match Made In Heaven

Both of these signs are attracted to unusual people, excitement, and loads of activity and socializing, which made it a better than even chance that they would meet and fall in love. And should Aquarius go rushing off at ungodly hours to help out a friend in trouble, Libra will not only understand, but will probably go along. If Aquarius brings a down and out stranger home for the night, then Libra will make up the spare room with no questions asked.

While there are some aspects of their personalities that will irritate the other, they will find it easier than most signs to compromise. The opinions of others mean very little to Aquarius. He/she cannot understand how Libra can be wounded by a cruel remark from someone else, and will possibly feel that Libra is being over sensitive.

In the past ,sex may not have meant a lot to Aquarius, but with Libra all that can change radically, as Libra is an impulsive lover, and he/she could show Aquarius the joys of being spontaneous. A very good relationship that is likely to last. A match made in Heaven.

How do you see Libra? As someone to bring more romance into your life - but you're not sure how long it will take for them to make up their mind that you're right for each other.

How does your Libra partner see you? They're instantly attracted and feel you could be the perfect partner to balance their scales.

How to make things better: Remember that Libra needs some positive proof of the affection you feel - thought transference isn't enough.


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AQUARIUS - Love Can Make It Work

Mentally, these two are very compatible, as the problems they help others with can be brought home and shared with the other, who will not only understand them, but will also help. At home together, they may be able to let their feelings show, knowing that they are safe from intrusion into their private affairs by the other signs. An Aquarian-Aquarian relationship is likly to grow due to the fact that they can mentally shift gears and stay in tune.

Financial problems may be their undoing, as each feels that worrying about such things is beneath him or her, and neither will find it easy to stick to a job for any length of time. The female is not likely to enjoy a domestic role in life, and this will make her the likely one to pursue a career and hold up the financial end until he can find a position that will be sufficiently satisfying and challenging; letting her do this does not bruise his ego as he does not have an inferiority complex.

Given that they are unsuited physically, they will not find this odd, or a reason to allow hostilities into their relationship, for sex does not play a big role in either one's life, as they are easily distracted by daily happenings and other people's problems. This is a fairly good match and love can make it work.

How do you see Aquarius? As someone who can surely understand and accept what you're all about. You're delighted to contemplate and exciting future together.

How does your Aquarius partner see you? How could they possibly see you in any different way? You mirror their thoughts and ideals.

How to make things better: Resolve you'll both try to reveal your deepest feelings a little more.

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CANCER - Not A Match Made In Heaven

Aquarius will go all out to 'improve' everything around him/her, and this will include trying to change Cancer, even though the initial attraction here is for the quiet, domesticated, and sensitive aura of the Cancerian. Cancer's crab-like tenacious nature is not likely to let Aquarius change him/her in any direction. To try to do so will be to drive the crab deeper into its shell; Cancer is very proud of, and satisfied with the intuition Cancerian's have, and Aquarius is very proud of the Aquarian logic. There are likely to be many arguments stemming from this aspect of their natures.

Aquarius can live a full life with Cancer being almost an after thought, as the Aquarian will spend a lot of time with friends, and out doing favors for, or helping, someone else. Cancer could begin to feel left out and ignored, eventually this will degenerate into fights. If the Aquarian airs his/her feelings about believing the truth to be the most important thing in the world, then Cancer will take to speaking out and could become a nagging complainer, which would keep Aquarius upset.

Sexually they are on a par with each other, but Cancer will find himself/herself having to do the enticing before Aquarius can get his/her mind on something else. This is not a relationship that is likely to go the distance; not a match made in heaven.

How do you see Cancer? As someone to curl up in front of the fire with on cold winter days - but you don't want to feel smothered by Cancer's protective ways.

How does your Cancer partner see you? As someone fascinating, but too much of a will-o-the-wisp to share your dreams of domestic bliss.

How to make things better: Recognize that yu're both so different, but enjoy what you can offer each other too.